How do you structure your household time? Who does what and when? Cooking, cleaning, chores, and shopping are facts of life; how will these chores be divided? Discussing this before the wedding day helps to prevent frustration and fighting. And, yes, the house has to be clean, you do need to eat, and the bills need to be paid. You can do it yourself or pay to have it done… decide. If you have a house with a yard, will you also have his and hers lawn mowers and snow shovels? Who takes care of car maintenance? Outdoor home maintenance? What happens if one of you is a neat freak, and the other is most definitely not? Some things you don’t find out until after the wedding, but it does not hurt to discuss it now.