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Winter Solstice 2007

            The world seemly comes to a standstill at this time of year. In fact, the word Solstice means “standing still sun”. The sun does seem to be still……daylight is at its shortest, night it’s longest. The ancient Romans termed the Solstice: The Birthday of the Unconquered Sun”, and had great feasts and parties to welcome the return of the Sun God. In ancient Scandinavia, the winter celebration was called “Yule”, and huge Yule logs were burnt to symbolically restore the warmth and light. Warming foods and beverages were abundant.

            The longest night of the year was then followed by the beginning of the new solar year, and the birthday of the Gods and Goddesses. (I always wondered why the New Year was celebrated in the dead time of the year, and now I know….to bring the year alive again!)

            Christmas used to be a “moveable” feast, much like Easter, since the birth date of the Christ Child was not specifically mentioned in Biblical texts. Pope Julius I decided to permanently move the feast of Christmas to December 25th in the fourth century. This was the traditional time of the “pagan” celebrations of the Winter Solstice, and the “Sun God’s” triumphant return. The Goddess would birth Her Son, the Sun, and the Light would return again to earth. The Pope hoped to replace the pagan traditions with Christian ones, and succeeded very well.

            So many Christmas traditions have their origin in early Goddess times. The Christmas wreath is in reality the wheel of life, the wheel of fate, which reminds us of the turning of the seasons, and of life. The Christmas tree (or now, in the politically correct terms, the “holiday tree”), was greenery brought in to keep the wood spirits and fairies warm. It was decorated with bells to frighten away evil; and candles, to ward away the darkness. The Yule log brought light and warmth to the home, and reminded the people that the return of the Light, and the Sun God was here. So many common traditions, repackaged, updated, slightly reworded, but the same, since the beginning times. We change so little………..            

            Icy cold mornings, snowy afternoons, quiet evenings, blustery nights. The world settles into a serene quietude that does not occur in other seasons. Light, finally, is gradually being restored into our lives. Warmth, radiance, and security are being restored. We crave the Light, because it has retreated from us. We decorate our homes with garlands of twinkling white and colored lights, we festoon the Yule tree with artificial candle glow, to restore the Light within our homes. The Goddess will birth Her Radiant Child of Light once again.

             This might be the time of year to birth the Light within ourselves. I have a feeling that our tradition of “New Years Resolutions” began as a way of expressing the newness of Light and the New Year.

             As a spiritual exercise in creating Light in your life, you may want to write down in your journal ten of your best qualities. Yes, that is correct, ten of the things you like best about yourself. Write them in the “I am” format: “I am a good listener” or “I am a great and loyal friend” or “I am an excellent organizer”. Whatever your talents and gifts are, write them down. If you would like to choose more than ten: wonderful! Now select two or three of these qualities that you would like to intensify, and bring more Light and Brightness to. If, for example, you select,” I am a devoted friend”, how could you show more devotion to your friends? Who are your friends? Is your next door neighbor a friend? What could be done to make relations more “neighborly’? Is it possible to have friends that you do not personally know, such as residents of a nursing home or prison? Would you be willing to hold your known and unknown friends in daily prayer? Is Mother Earth your friend? How could you show more love and devotion to Her? Is Spiritual Ecology a path you wish to travel? What about the animals? People in other parts of the country, or world? Can you see where this is leading? This is just the beginning; you have other qualities and gifts that will flourish with more attention and respect. Focus on the good parts of you. Your “imperfections” (which may actually be charming eccentricities) perceived will vanish in the Light of your ministrations. Write down your plans for adding to your Light. Celebrate each time you bring more Light to your life, and the lives of others.

            Instead of “resolutions” which are so easily broken and forgotten, and setting a heart up for failure, holding good ideals and ideas in the Light of the Goddess brings peace to your heart. Draw out those beautiful qualities that reside with in you, and assist them in preparing to blossom in the Springtime, which shall arrive soon.

            This is the time of year to withdraw inside our cozy spaces, to reflect and meditate, to read and craft, to play with the children and pets, to pray and reflect, and enjoy the inside world of our homes. Traditionally, this was the time of year for schooling, for the teaching of stories and songs, for the learning of the crafts and trades of the previous generations. Winter is also the time for silent walks on abandoned pathways and trails, cross country skiing, meditatively feeding the birds and following tiny animal trails. Withdraw now into the silence of Winter, and create warmth in your heart.  Enjoy the beauty of this Season of Light. And please enjoy the beauty that is you.

Bright Blessings,

  Sharon  

Early Autumn  2007

            I have been contemplating prayer quite a bit lately. Working so diligently on many projects over the course of the summer has provided ample opportunity to think and muse. Digging weeds, stripping old wallpaper, renovating and restoring is the type of semi-mindless work that is perfect for meditative thoughts.

            In particular, prayer in all its many forms has been on the forefront. Our part of the world experienced a long drought this summer, and signs and billboards sprang up all over town, with one common message: Pray for rain! Yes we sorely needed it, and no, the rains did not come. The sky was clear and blue, the plants were dry and withered, and rationing was begun. Finally, the clouds opened late in the summer, and the nourishing rains arrived. And I did not see one sign that said “Thank you for the rain!”

            And the thought came:  when we are asking for stuff, is that the only time we know how to pray? Is the concept of gratitude out of date? Or maybe is prayer out of date?

            Growing up in the Catholic tradition, we had prayers for every day, and every time of day. Every season, every occasion, every tradition, every situation had specific prayers for it. Morning prayers and evening prayers. Prayers before meals and prayers after meals. Prayers for Christmas, and Easter, and St. Valentine’s Day, prayers for St. Joseph’s Day and St. Anne’s Day and St. Bridget’s Day. Every day had its very own saint and special prayers to go with it. There were special blessings for house pets and farm animals, sore throats and other maladies, prayers for the dead, prayers for the newly born, prayers for the sick and injured, prayers for every person on earth.

            I learned that there were many forms of prayer: Prayers of Thanksgiving, Prayer of Adoration, Prayers of Petition, and Prayers of Reparation.

            There were so many beings to pray to: God, Jesus, and of course, His Mother, Mary (she is the favorite; did you know that there are more Churches dedicated to Mary than to Her Son, and all the Saints combined?), and at least a million (more of less)  saints and angels. I felt overwhelmed with love and protection from so many beneficent Holy Ones.

             However, they all seemed so far away. Far away in Heaven and so far away from me.

            One day, my studies lead me to the Prayer of Jesus in his original Aramaic language….we are all familiar with the translated English version of it…..”Our Father, who art in Heaven, hallowed be your name…..”

            In Aramaic, the language he actually spoke and taught in, however, the prayer is much different:

  Oh Birther, Father and Mother of the Cosmos
Focus Your Light within us- make it useful
Create Your reign of unity now
Through our fiery hearts and willing hands
Help us love beyond our ideals.

            I was amazed. This was not the prayer I had said fervently each day. This was something new and yet, older than ancient. God was Mother. God was intimate, peaceful, loving, and so much more. God was Mother. God is Mother.  We were not made of dirt or someone’s left-over body parts, as was stated in old texts.  We were birthed from God, as stated by Her Son. And since males cannot give birth, God became The Goddess to me. A Goddess as close to me as my own body. A Goddess who encompassed us, our world and the Universe with Her love.

            I learned new prayers. Not prayers of asking for stuff, not prayers of complaint, not prayers begging for forgiveness. True prayers. Happy prayers. Prayers of singing, and dancing and poetry. Prayers of joy for being alive. And possibly, most important, prayers of contentment for the joy of being together with Goddess.

            Nowhere was there ever written a prayer for just “hanging out” with the Divine. Not asking for “stuff”, possessions, wealth; not formal petitions and structures, not asking to Power to smite my enemies. Prayers of: Let us be, let us love, and let us enjoy one another. Let’s have a cup of tea, and be together. No agenda, no formula. Let us talk and snuggle and breather in each other’s presence. I learned to love being in the company of the Goddess, and to see Her beauty everywhere.

                        I discovered a prayer, written by Henry Horton, that I thought you might enjoy. It is loosely based on the traditional “Our Father”.

 

Our Mother, whose body is the Earth
Sacred is Thy being. Thy gardens grow
Thy will be done in our cities, as it is in nature
Thanks be this day for food and air and water
Forgive us our sins against the Earth, as we are learning to forgive one another.
And surrender us not into extinction, but deliver us from our folly
For thine is the beauty, and the power, and all life, from birth to death
From beginning to end.
So be it forever
Blessed be.

Blessings of Autumn Equinox to you.

I keep you in my heart always.

Sharon

Blessings, Joanna, for all you do to keep this site so lovely!!!     

Summer 2007

            Summer is the season of the Goddess, in all He rich and abundant forms and shapes and colors. It is the season where all the sensations of the senses come to life and are finely tuned. I love looking out and seeing a thousand shades of green. Enormous puffy clouds, the moon and stars at night, swallows performing air acrobatics. What a gift to be able to see. Hearing bird songs, and chainsaws and teenager’s loud speakers blasting their latest version of music, and smaller children at their play. What a gift to be able to hear. The mixture of scents waft by……garden flowers, a barbeque grill scorching dinner, the chlorine of a swimming pool. What a gift to be able to discern scent. The feel of Mother earth beneath my body, the texture of the flowers and shrubs, the softness of the growing puppies ands kittens. What a gift to be able to feel. The blessings of the Goddess are unlimited.

            The Spring-born animals are growing rapidly, enjoying the brightness of the days, and the plethora of good foods to eat. Plants that have lain dormant for months are growing at an astonishing rate. It feels as though there is an ongoing race outside, to see who can get the biggest/tallest/widest in the shortest amount of time.

            I have been observing “the race” from the vantage point of my garden. The weeds are trying valiantly to take over every possible amount of space open, and I am attempting, just as valiantly, to keep them at bay. There was a luxurious rain the evening prior, so now the weeds are in the lead…..for now. Until I suit up in “my armor” of gloves, insect repellent, rake, trowel, and shovel. The weeds don’t stand a chance.

            And as I vigorously yank out the offending visitors to my garden, the reoccurring thought of life and death keeps running through my mind……

            I realized that a great deal of Summer is about letting go and releasing that which is no longer wanted or necessary. My prolific and happy weeds would be just fine in another place or time. But here amidst my flowers, they are unwanted little villains now, vying for precious space, crowding out the poppies and myrtle and bleeding heart And out they go the compost pile……to be transformed and to be reborn at a later time, finding a home in another season, perhaps, in nourishing the vegetable patch. The Wheel of the Seasons turns.

            The beauty of Summer would not be complete if not for the harshness of Winter. The hotness and humidity that are hallmarks of Summer are in stark contrast to Winter’s icy cold dryness. The lush abundance of Summer greenery contrasts the stark white and black and grey landscapes of deep Winter.

            I thought about life and death in my little garden. It was time for the weeds to die, even if they were not ready to go. They would have a second chance at existence later on. Life is change and transformation. The seed transforms to the plant, to the fruit, back to seed, to be transformed once again. Life is not stagnant in Nature. When there is no change, death approaches swiftly. When water becomes stagnant, is it no longer a source of nourishment and life. It brings destruction.  We also must transform, or cease to be.

            In Summer’s warmth we can jump and run and play, or lay back in tall grasses and idly watch the clouds go by. Were you fortunate enough to have a childhood Summer free of the chronic over-scheduling we now inflict upon our children? Do you remember being able to have seemingly unlimited amounts of freedom to explore the neighborhood; stopping to see how far ants can travel with a boulder of a bread crumb on its tiny back, running and shrieking through the sprinkler, riding a rickety bike down the driveway, back inside to pester Mom  for a refreshing orange popsicle? What a gift to have TIME. Were you given that great gift? I truly hope so. If not, give yourself that great gift of time now…..even if it is only a half hour to sit and sip a icy glass of lemonade, and delight all your senses with it.

            The great seasonal feast of Litha quickly approaches. This is the traditional celebration of the Mid Summer Solstice, the Longest Day of the year, June 21st. Litha brings Summer to it’s official beginning. To celebrate the Sun, and the warmth, and the abundance of Mother Earth’s bounty. Litha also reminds us that the days will start to shorten the next day, on the way to winter’s inevitable return. There is a cycle and a balance to our life on Mother Earth. A time to weed out what is not wanted, a time to enjoy the beauty and pleasures life offers, a time to nurture what we have symbolically and literally planted in our lives.

            The ancients deemed Litha a tremendously important occasion, and built monuments to commemorate it, monuments that are in use to this day. The great edifice of Stonehenge will be the site of ritual prayer and remembrance on June 21st. There are other sites in other parts of the world that are used to mark the days of solstice and equinox. The days are filled with the possibility of personal transformation, if used wisely and reverently and mindfully. Celebrate the day with fresh strawberries and orange colored produce, feast on local greens on your most beautiful china plates Grace your table with roses, lavender and yarrow. Look and see and feel the healing power these lovely flowers and fruits contain, and appreciate the planet that produces them. And realize that even though we are celebrating the beauty of Light at its peak, Darkness is beginning its journey towards the Winter. Everything changes, all is transformed.

Bright Blessings of Summer.

I keep you in my heart.

Sharon  

Spring 2007

        I am completely amazed every year at this time. Spring comes in so quickly. One day the bog is frozen and silent, and the very next day, it comes alive with the sound of frogs and crickets and who-knows –what- all that is living in there. One day, the trees and bushes are bare and forlorn, and again, the very next day….there are buds!! How does this happen? How does Creation know exactly the day it should come alive again after the long winter?

             There is an underlying wisdom to all of Creation. Some personify this wisdom as a Goddess and give Her the name Ostara, She who brings the blessing of warmth and beauty of Spring. She who brought the balance of night and day with the coming of the Spring Equinox. She who brings forth new life and abundance each year with the turning of the seasons.

            Ostara weaves a wonderful story of rebirth and renewal in Spring; some even call this renewal “the resurrection”; life from death. Spring from Winter. The cycle of life continues in brilliance and beauty.

            Traditionally, many cultures and nationalities begin the New Year in mid to late March, in the days of the Julian calendar, the New Year started on March 25th. This makes perfect sense. Spring is the beginning time, with new life bursting all around. I am sure the bight person who moved the beginning of the year to dark, cold, dreary January had a good reason, but, for the life of me, I cannot figure out why. Winter is dead time, spring is alive. Spring is filled with anticipation and promise. Spring is sweet scents and luscious colors. Spring is new baby chicks and bunnies. Spring is the first white butterfly flittering above. Spring is Life.

            Spring is the perfect time of year for our own personal renewal. Traditionally, this is the time for the Annual Spring Cleaning Event. Houses were torn apart, scrubbed and put back together, sparkling clean. All the dirt and grime from the winter was cleansed away, making the home fresh for the Spring….immaculate windows, fresh carpets, baseboards clean, new paint, cupboards rearranged and scented with fresh shelf paper. Outside, the yard called out for major overhaul…..branches and twigs picked up, old leaves and trash removed, flower beds uncovered. Winter is hard on the garden and yard, and needs to be ritually removed so that new growth may come forth unimpeded.

            In the days of the Goddess, the home was reverently cleansed and blessed. Garbage was hauled away and burnt. Nothing new could be brought into the home until the old and no-longer-useful was cleared away. This can easily be transformed into our lives today. It is always enjoyable to invent a new ritual to make the unpleasurable activities into something more tolerable.

            I realize that we, as women, have come too far in our lives to be relegated back to the kitchen. We have professional and personal goals to achieve, and living life as house maids is not something we aspire to. However, we, as women, are also stuck with the majority of the household tasks. This is a fact. This can be a blessing or a curse, and it all depends on attitude. There is an old saying in Zen Buddhism: “before enlightenment, chop wood, carry water. After enlightenment, chop wood carry water.” What needs to be done, needs to be done. It can be done with a curse or a prayer…..but you will find greater joy, if you do your work with a blessing.

            Our home can either be our temple or our crash-pad. And again, it is a matter of intention and attitude. There will always be the household chores. But if these tasks are performed in a spirit of reverence and gratitude….the spirit of renewal can blossom forth. Put on some great music, place a drop of two of essential oils of pine or lavender into your cleaning water, and begin. If you live with someone or “someones”, enlist their assistance, according to their joy, or your needs. If you have children in your home, let them help also, according to their age and ability. Even the smallest toddler can pick up toys and wave a feather duster around. And at the end of the day, celebrate with your or your family’s favorite treat; or dream up a wonderful surprise dinner.  Enjoy the meal together. Feel grateful to be able to have this time together, complete with abundant food and a beautiful living space

            I feel that the preponderance of “clutter controller” and “mess master” services speaks to the need in our lives for the ritual of home renewal. When there are no rituals to bring order out of chaos, it is easy to sink into despair, and feel overwhelmed.  

            Spring is a good time for renewal in our personal life….body, mind and spirit. Beginning with our living space, our lives may enjoy a major transformation, and begin to move into greater levels of peace, serenity and gratitude. Many religious traditions use the weeks preceding Spring as a cleansing time for the soul. This is a time to weed out negative traits and practices for those that are more fulfilling and joy-filled. Some practices involved “giving up” a favorite item, such as a favorite food or activity, to strengthen the soul. Others add an activity, such as an extra prayer time or community service, or a mind-fullness walk; again, to strengthen the soul. You may enjoy the challenge of adding such an activity to your own spiritual practices.

             Our hearts enjoy a renewal in the Spring. To paraphrase the poet “in spring a young person’s fancy turns to love.” And love it is. The world looks fresher, and more vibrant, and easier to love. There is hope, which signals the beginnings of love. And there is beauty, which is food for the soul and spirit. Enjoying the loveliness of Nature enriches every aspect of us.

             Each season has its own particular beauty, but Spring alone carries the promise of rebirth and renewal. Spring’s special charm the promise of newness it holds. Spring brings forth babies of all kinds, from bugs to birds to bunnies, and all are delightful in their own way. It is almost impossible to resist a baby!

            Enjoy this sacred, beautiful season of Spring, and all the wonders of the Goddess in your life.   Bright Spring Blessings,

Sharon

Early Spring 2007

            My Father died almost one year ago. How very strange it is to write that. How very strange it is to experience it. A year. Could it have been that long ago, when Dad was so sick? It seems like only yesterday. And yet, it seems as though I have lived a hundred lifetimes since that day. I understand now the common practice of allowing a year for mourning, a year for wearing mourning clothes, a year to be allowed to grieve. I have needed this year to begin the healing journey process.

            There has been an entire year of “firsts” we must live through when someone  beloved dies.  The First Thanksgiving without Dad. The First Christmas without Dad.  My first Birthday without Dad. Dad was born on New Year’s Eve, and he took the New Year Celebration with him, for the entire family.  The First Easter without Dad will soon arrive. And very soon, we arrive at the First Anniversary of his Death. The man I adored for my entire life has been gone for one year. I adore him, and always will, even though he is somewhere, someplace, somewhen, somehow, that I do not understand.

            This year of mourning has also been a search for the meaning and understanding of life and death. What happens when we die? What part of us leaves? Where does that part of us go? Heaven? Is there a Heaven, or is it just a fairytale, like Santa and the Tooth Fairy? Or, maybe “it “doesn’t go anywhere, and we just die dead. We just die dead like all other life dies. But do we die?

            My sisters and I held Dad constantly during his last days. There was always a caress, a kiss, a song, a touch. Dad never did like to be alone, and we kept a constant vigil. We all knew exactly when his last breath left his body. There was an instant knowing:  “Dad is gone”. It was like a door slamming shut. Gone. Gone Gone. The presence of Dad, the essence of Dad, the being of Dad was gone. The body we knew so well lay still, and we reverently cleaned and changed the clothes. But Daddy, where are you?

            Prayer and meditation, reading the words of mystics and sages, and the teachings of the Goddess, have opened doors to understanding the “whys” of death. We all die. It is the common thread that binds us all together. We all live and we all die. This is the cycle of life. From life comes death, and from death, life is reborn. The Goddess gives vivid illustration of this: from the bitter depths of Winter when Earth is cold and seemingly dead, comes the new, fresh beginning of life. Spring is the celebration of life is all its myriad forms. The tree felled in Autumn, laying dead on the ground all Winter is now home for tiny animals and insects. From roots and branches creep moss and lichen and grasses. Life from death.  The enormous realization that all life is essentially One Life. Each of us is a part of everything. We are all truly One. One with each other, one with all life, and one with our planet, Mother Earth.  We are all a part of this great cycle of life and rebirth, and as such, we live forever. We live in the circle of life.

            My Father lives on in each of his six children. He lives in his grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. And in their children, yet to be born. He lives in his words and the stories we remember and share. He lives in the trees and stars and water and plants and animals. He lives in all I see and feel and touch. He lives on in you, because we are all One. In the known and the unknown, the physical and the spiritual, the now, and the yet-to-be. This is the great mystery of life. This is the blessings and gift of Spring.

I keep you in my heart.

Bright Spring Blessings.

Sharon  



Winter, 2007

               The Season of Light is beginning. The long dark nights are finally beginning to grow shorter. There is hope for longer days, and warmth. That is what we as humans live for….hope. Without hope, there is little joy. Without hope, there is no future. Without hope, life has no meaning. That is what the various cultures, religions, and ethnicities have been celebrating for the last few months….hope. Hope….. that the light will return to our world. Hope……that the warmth will return to our world. Hope…..that new life will once again return and refresh our world.

            There will be Festivals of Light and Hope beginning shortly. February 2 is the celebration of Candlemas, the return of the Light and the Spring. Our ancestors trembled in fear throughout the long winter months. They faced uncertainties that we know little of: would the tiny babies and frail elders survive the cold winter? Would there be food enough to last until new crops could grow? Would there be illness? Life was uncertain at best without our modern luxuries of heat, mega-markets and medical treatments. Yet these strong people had the abundant hope and faith that, yes, they would survive, and so would their community. They would all work together to ensure that survival. They shared the stores of food, herbal medicines and supplies. They created sacred rituals and prayers to closely bond the community. Clothes, foods, embroidery and knitting patterns, dances and songs were all used to forge a sense of togetherness, of belonging to a special group. All of these activities heighten the spirit of hope. The mid-winter celebrations heighten the hope of new life to come.

            How much hope is in your life now? What do you hope for? What do you live for? What brings passion and joy into your heart? Who do you love? And who loves you? What do you do to bring hope into your life, and the lives of others?

            One of my favorite quotes is from Albert Einstein, who said “There are two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle; the other is as though everything is a miracle.” I choose a miracle. I choose lots of miracles.  Living and knowing that all you see and hear is miraculous is living with hope eternal. To know that Spring will come again is to live in hope. To know that the sun will indeed rise each day is living a miracle. To know that you are loved is a miracle of the highest magnitude. Love gives hope its flavor and substance. Giving and receiving love is the greatest gift we can know.

            We are bombarded with messages during the Christmas season to give, give, give and share love, time and most of all, money. All of those messages vanish like discarded wrapping paper once Christmas is over. Yet, these next few months are the times of the greatest cold and hardships. These are times when the lonely are truly forgotten. This is the time when hope fades, leaving despair in its place. No one should have to know despair, especially not the children, or the ill, or the elderly. You know what to do…..you know how to give hope, and love.

            The wisdom of the Goddess invites us to see the continuation of the cycle of life in all its myriad forms. Winter gives way to Spring, darkness gives way to light, life and death dance in a circle of completion. Goddess brings the message of hope to all beings. She encourages you to bring your own personal message of hope and love to your world….your family and friends, co-workers, community members, strangers. Give the beautiful gift of yourself, and bring the light back into the world.

I keep you in my heart.

Bright Winter Blessings of Light

 

Sharon  


Autumn 2006

             The autumn is such a fascinating time of year. It is a microcosm of life, condensed into one tiny part of the year. Our ancient fore-parents honored the wisdom and beauty of this season with many rituals and celebrations, mostly of thanksgiving and gratitude.

            The gradual darkening of the days and the lengthening of the nights may serve to remind us of the lengthening of our own days into the evening time of our lives. The brilliant blaze of color from the trees, which comes from the chlorophyll fading away revealing the true nature of its leaves, serves to remind us of our own true nature.

            The days now are decidedly cooler, which brings about greater enthusiasm for moving and scurrying about. The coolness also brings us into the shelter of our warm homes. The fall clothes are coming out of storage…warm, cuddly sweaters and thick socks take the place of summer’s tank tops and sandals. Everything changes. Life is transformed yet again. And this is the message of the Goddess of the Autumn.

            The Goddess invites us to look with wisdom on this autumn season. Notice and marvel at all you can discover. And there is much to learn. What has always been meaningful to me is watching the cycle of life complete itself in Autumn. Winter brings dormancy and rest. Spring bursts forth new life in infinite variety. Throughout  Summer, life has been growing and flourishing at an amazing pace. And now, in Autumn, the growing is done. No more will the fruits and vegetables grow; they are at the peak of their cycle. What happens next, if fruits are not eaten and enjoyed, is decay and rot. The vegetation turns inward, and begins to consume itself. No more growth is possible, only decomposition. However, if the fruit or vegetable falls into the soil, it can transform. The seeds become part of the soil, burrow downwards, and there, safe and snug in darkness, rest for many months. Many animals seek the safety of hibernation, and secret inner growth.  By the magic of inner knowledge and wisdom, they will grow in the light of Spring at exactly the proper time. The miracle of the seasons is continuing once again.

            The message in this Autumn transformation is knowing the wisdom of letting go. There is only so much we can hold on to, only so much we can grow in a single season. There needs to be time to absorb, assimilate, and reflect. There needs to be time for rest and release. New vegetation cannot be produced if the seeds are not released. New animals cannot grow if they are not born. Autumn is the time for letting go, and giving thanks for what has been given. Autumn is time for inward turning and inward growing. Autumn is the time for recognizing what is no longer needed or necessary. The fruits of our lives need to be released so that new growth can occur.

             Autumn housecleaning is just as important as Spring housecleaning…literally and figuratively. Whatever you cannot use, can be given away to certainly bless someone else.

            The Goddess wisdom invites us to take a look at life now and discern what needs to be released, to flourish somewhere else. Outmoded ideas and thoughts make way for new patterns to be discovered. Outdated clothes are transformed into someone else’s vintage styles. Relationships that no longer nurture and sustain need to be released, so that new friendships can begin. Stale routines are brightened into new travels and interests. Autumn is traditionally the “back to school time”, and with good reason. New knowledge is always a necessity for expansion.

            Release with gratitude and joy. Give away what no longer gives you pleasure, in the desire that it will please someone else. Thank Goddess for the happiness of all your seasons of life, as you embrace this new season with enthusiasm. (And know that the word “enthusiasm” means to be filled with the Divine.)

            Know that after all is released, the resting time can commence. You may patiently watch and wait, knowing that the new seeds you have planted will begin their growth presently, in their own time and pace, but grow they will.

            Please take some time to delight in the world around you…enjoy the brilliant trees and the cool winds. Wander through the pumpkin patch, and jump in scratchy hay. Plant a tree or some flowering bulbs now. Say a little prayer over them as you “tuck them in bed for the winter”. Observe how our animal friends prepare for the inevitable cold weather. Where do your favorite birds go in the autumn? Where do the squirrels in your neighborhood hide their acorns? How do you invite the cool breezes into your life? Too often, we forget to “unbusy” our lives enough to spend time outdoors. The Autumn air will refresh your spirit.

            Invent a special gratitude ritual to thank the Goddess for all this incredible beauty that surrounds us. And please don’t let the word “ritual” intimidate you. A ritual can be as simple as a heartfelt “thank you” prayer before your evening meal. Thanksgiving does not have to occur only on one specific day in November….it can and should, be literally every day, if you desire it to be.      

            As much as you can, live in gratitude. Be grateful for the people you encounter, the places you go, the things you see. The “attitude of gratitude” will transform your life!

            I wish you all the blessings of this glorious season of Autumn.

 

I keep you in my heart.

Blessed be.

Sharon  

August

            August…what a regal sounding name for this month. You can feel the lushness in the air, the overwhelming abundance of warmth, green, sunshine and plant life. It seems as though all creation is reaching completion in this month. The fruits and vegetables are almost done with their growing cycle, ready to be harvested and either enjoyed now or preserved in some fashion for the coming cold fall and winter months. And, yes, a touch of autumn is in the air. Some of summers flowers are brown and withered now, their growing finished for this time.  The days are perceptibly shorter now, the cycle of the seasons continues.

            In the older days, August was the time of harvest celebrations, of giving thanks to the Great Mother for Her bounty. There were no supermarket superstores in days gone by. No guarantees of fresh foods, or of any foods, for the long, frigid months yet to come. Any weather calamity now that threatened the harvest would have disastrous results for the community. Food was precious. Food was life. Food was a gift from the Goddess for Her children. And Thanksgiving celebrations were the order of the day.

            The first major festival of thanksgiving was, and is, called Lughnasadh, or Lamas….the gift of the first loaf made from the new grains harvested. What an extraordinary tradition to be celebrated…the giving back to Mother Earth, the gifts received from Her. This is a celebration of the fruits of the Earth. A celebration of the community. A celebration of family.

            In the old Irish tradition, Lamas was sometimes termed Colcannon Day, named after colcannon, a traditional meal. According to Mara Freeman in her lovely book “Kindling the Celtic Spirit”, the head of the household would dig the first shovel of potatoes with great reverence and sprinkle it with holy water. The woman of the household would wear a special white apron, kept just for this day, and prepare the potatoes with garlic and onions and cabbage. It was served with butter and hot milk, and eaten with gratitude. It was believed to be very unlucky to not have potatoes on this special day, so the household made sure they shared with the neighbors.

            In the spirit of tradition and gratefulness, try to emulate our wise ancestors this month. At the very least, say out loud some words of thankfulness before you eat your evening meal. Give thanks to the farmers for growing the vegetables, give thanks to the truckers for bringing food to the stores, give thanks to the markets for providing the availability of so much, give thanks to yourself for preparing the food with love and care, give thanks for those gathered together to share your meal, and give thanks to the Great Mother for Her bounty. Your meal will taste so much better.

            If you like, try making the traditional colcannon as a treat this month (it is good!) or try your hand at making bread….a fruit bread would be appropriate and fun.  If you are like me, you may have neighbors who drop off anonymous bags of zucchini and squash on your doorstep in the wee hours. Try making vegetable bread….it still falls in the realm of the traditional. I have the best recipe for zucchini bread…..drop an email to me if you would like the recipe…..super yummy!!!

            Above all, have fun this month….this last hurrah of summer. There is no better way to honor the Goddess than by enjoying Her beautiful world.

Bright Blessings of summer.

I keep you in my heart.

  Sharon

          

Mid-July

My goodness! Where has the summer gone? I was sure that it was May just a week or two ago!

My Wonderful Web Goddess was beset upon by Internet Gremlins and other unpleasant nasties, which is why we are a little late updating our website. Ahhh, the scattered energies of summer! But thanks to Joanna, the Web-Goddess-Guru and Computer Genius-par-excellent’, everything is up and running beautifully. Thank you, dear Joanna!! You are the Best!!!

Since the month is half over, I shall keep this message very tiny. I just wanted you to know that I am keeping you in my heart and prayers these long, warm summer days.

I wish you and your family safe and happy vacation travels, joyful get-togethers with friends and family, inspiring summer reading, and peace in your innermost heart.

Goddess Bless!

Sharon

June Musings

“Mother Earth laughs in flowers”

            If ever a month could be said to laugh in flowers, it would have to be June. How lovely the world is now, sweetly fragranced and richly colored. I love green!

            June receives its name from the Roman Great Mother Juno, the Roman Goddess of love and marriage and families.  She extends Her blessings to all couples who select Her month to celebrate their marriages. And surely She must be the patroness of family reunions! Juno had dozens of titles and attributes: She was a Goddess of war, Juno Seispitei (Juno the Preserver), the Goddess of  checks and balances (Juno Moneta), the Goddess of Light (Juno Lucina), the Goddess of the people (Juno Populonia) and many other names throughout the ages.

            It was believed in the ancient times that every woman had her own personal “Juno” within her….her own special Goddess sparkle which illuminated her spirit. No matter what her looks, talents, attributes or demeanor, every woman embodied the Goddess in a special way.

            The Goddess Juno brings a timely amount of balance into our lives. She reminds us that there is nothing more important in our lives than the people in our world: our families, our friends, and our communities. “Work can take a back seat for awhile,” Juno says. “Make time for picnics, and graduations and outings to the beach. Talk to your relatives, get to know your cousins, play with the nieces and nephews.” The gift of family in our lives is a true blessing. Use your “Juno Gifts” to make this month memorable: plan the family bar-be-que and prepare the world’s best tasting potato salad; make a scrap book for the family to marvel over; listen to Great-Grandmother’s stories, and then preserve them in a book, a poem, photographs or a painting or collage. You have the gift of the Goddess within you!

            Father’s Day is celebrated this month, on the 18th, under the good auspices of Juno. She who is the spiritual guardian of families, smiles on the physical guardian of the family: Father. Please cherish the gift of your father.

             This is the first Father’s Day our family will observe without Dad. He has been gone from our lives for two months now, and he is missed more than words can express. We, his six children, always bought him Father’s Day gifts of “Old Spice” after shave, and when he still smoked his pipe, cherry tobacco or “Mixture Seventy-nine”. How I still love the scent of “Old Spice!” He said they were his favorite gifts, and we always believed him. We bought Dad outrageously colored t-shirts and sweatshirts with goofy messages on them, and he actually wore them. We gave him the most ridiculous ties and socks ever created, and he wore them proudly to work. We lovingly crafted treasures from tuna fish cans and baby-food jars and macaroni, and Dad used them. He loved us, and we worshipped him.

             Now we have the precious memories of the way his eyes crinkled up when he grinned, his beautiful salt and pepper hair, (he said the silver was another gift from his children) his marvelous scent. I would give anything to see him smile again, and hear one of his silly jokes. We all would. I see him in my heart each day, and give thanks for the time we had together.

            This Father’s Day, give your father an extra hug and kiss.  Make sure your Dad knows that he is so very important in your life. Give him an outrageous tie with a smile, and love from me, and Juno.

The first day of summer, the Summer Solstice, occurs on June 21st.  Celebrate the longest day of the day of the year with some quality time with Mother Earth. Let Her know how very grateful you are for Her wondrous bounty. Beautify your corner of the planet with love for our Mother. Plant a tree or flowers, pick up the trash, create a compost pile, and revere our sacred world in your own fashion. You will be glad you did!

Bright Blessings of the Summer and the Solstice to you.

I keep you in my heart.

Sharon

May Memorials

              May is a special month for me. My daughter and I have birthdays right next to each other, on Memorial Day and the day after, so we have a weekend long celebration. When special days were celebrated on the original day (and not for a convenient 3 day weekend) Christa had a parade on her birthday, and she thought it was a great treat to have her very own parade! There were bands and floats, horses and firetrucks. There were men and women dressed in uniforms of every branch of the military, carrying flags, and marching solemnly along the main street. The parade ended in the cemetery with readings, the haunting music of taps and a 21 gun salute honoring our fallen heroes.

            After the parade, we would walk home and talk about all we had seen and heard. When she was a little child, Christa did not understand about war heroes and veterans. She understands now.

             I would like to focus on this Day of Memory, and the Goddess who presides over it: Athena. Athena, Goddess of wisdom and war, is the patroness of the city of Athens; Great wisdom is necessary to protect one’s life and country. I like to vision Athena blessing each and every person who has ever gone to war, to defend and protect family and country. These brave ones are our warriors, who go and fight the great battles that shape the destiny of our world: the men and women of the first war, also known as the Great War,and the war to end all wars; the heroes of the wars that followed: World War II, the Korean War, the Vietnam War, Desert Storm, The Iraq and Afghanistan Wars….these are the warriors who are in our prayers and memories each Memorial Day; these are the warriors we honor. Even if we disagree with politics and policies, the work of our warriors needs to be blessed and praised.

            I would honor one special veteran this month, my Father, Edward.

            He fought in the Pacific Theatre during World War II. He was very young; in fact, he made his parents sign a waiver so that he could join the Navy. He was absolutely dashing in his dress whites, so very young and courageous. He had many adventures and challenges, saw many things that he never shared with anyone outside of his shipmates or other veterans. When he returned home, he married and fathered six children, finished a degree in accounting, was involved in the lives of his children, and was very active in The American Legion and other Veteran organizations,

            One of his daughters, Gladys, was inspired to follow in his footsteps and joined the Navy. She developed discipline, strength of character and courage. She met her husband, Peter, through the Navy. They married and had a child, Peter Ray, who, when he grew up, joined the Marines, and just recently finished his tour of duty overseas. Another grandson, my son, Michael, joined the Army after 9/11, and is currently stationed in Iraq. Both grandsons joined the American Legion in honor of their Grandfather. Dad was the Commander of the Roose-Vanker Post 286 in Detroit for many years, and he was proud to have two grandsons join him there.

            My Father lived his life in color: he had a laugh that would make a stone smile. He sported a huge handlebar moustache, and favored bright happy clothes in reds and blues and yellows. He painted landscapes in oils and read thousands of books on every subject imaginable. He could out -solve Sherlock Holmes and Nero Wolfe.  Pizza and chocolate were his world-famous cure-alls for what ailed you. He sang wonderful, semi-cleaned up sea shanties. It never occurred to us that not every child was lulled to sleep with a stirring rendition of “99 bottles of beer on the wall” and “what do you do with a drunken sailor?”…..that was Dad and we loved him without reservation.

            Our Dad died on April 2, just a few weeks ago, after a long struggle with cancer.  He was in his home surrounded by his family. We hugged him, and talked to him and loved him as he fought his last battle. He was always brave and had a smile for each of us. He is the finest man I have ever known, and I am so proud to be his child, and a part of his family. Family was the most important thing in his life. He worshipped our mother, and all of his children, and we adored him.

             My Dad is one of the many members of the Armed Forced that we will honor this Memorial Day. I am sure Dad would be surprised if he knew that I asked Athena to watch over him and bless him, but, then again, maybe not. He was wise and curious and open to all knowledge. I think he would be smiling knowing that Gods and Goddesses were proud of him and all his comrades in arms.

            Purchase a poppy this May 18th, for the physical rehabilitation of our veterans, and the welfare of their families who have been left without their presence. They have given their all for us. Remember them in your prayers. Keep Memorial Day a Remembrance Day for our brave warriors. Christa’s Birthday parade is in honor of her Grandpa this year.

I love you, Daddy.

I keep you in my heart.

Sharon  

At last, April is here, we have begun to see the blossomings of new life in the world outside…and hopefully, a new blossoming in our spiritual lives as well.

            April is a mixture of so many things: the blustery winds of winter, the warmth of summer, and the vibrant colorways of autumn, all rolled into one tapestry of delight, with April’s own special vibrancy.

            The name “April” comes to us from one of the many names of the Greek Goddess Aphrodite. The entire month of April is sacred to Her.  Aphrodite is most commonly known as the Goddess of love and pleasure. But She is also a rich and multi-faceted presence in myth. She presided over childbirth, life, death and time. Aphrodite was also worshipped as the Goddess of crafts and letters, arts and culture.

             In other translations of the Goddess’ name, Aprilis and Apru, the meaning of Her name is “to open”. “To Open”. How fascinating is that! We have just completed the Spring Equinox, the new beginning of life in the Seasons of the Year. And now, through the blessings of Aphrodite, we are invited to open. Open to what? To whom?

            Let us ponder for a moment the ritual of the spring equinox, when we thought about our lives and what was needed to become more in balance, in every aspect of our being. Physical, mental, emotional and spiritual balance is the beginning of wisdom. And now we receive the invitation to open to the freshness and newness of April.            To enliven the balance with the grace of Aphrodite.

             For my own personal meditations, this means opening to the new and unknown. To welcome the new thoughts, ideas, and people that come into my life, and bless their presence. Random coincidences are rarely just that. I believe in the Divine Presence that sends exactly what I need, exactly when and how it is needed, into my life. And I believe that is true for you also.

             New people wander in and out of our lives for a purpose. Perhaps that reason is not known yet, but, in truth, it is not necessary to know. Just accept, and be prepared for an abundance of wonderment in your life!

             New ideas make their presence known in dreams, or songs, or flashes of inspiration. This provides the mechanism for creativity.  Run with those ideas! Write your poem! Create your new artistic endeavor! Redecorate your living room! Paint your toenails! Live in color! Live in Aphrodite! Take all the wisdom from the Equinox and refresh your life; use this wisdom to implement the balance of your life.

            Easter is this month….April 16th. Easter is “late” in the season this year, as compared to occurring at the end of March in other years.  Did you ever wonder how the Easter date is calculated? I always did……so I will share it with you!  Easter is the first Sunday, after the full moon, after the Spring Equinox.  

            Easter receives its name from the Goddess Eostara, who is the Goddess of the Springtime. Her symbols are bunnies and eggs and newly blooming flowers, the traditional signs of the spring celebration of new life.

            No matter what your spiritual tradition or background is, Easter can still be powerfully symbolic of transformation and renewal. The promise of new life and resurrection can open us to unique wisdom. The promise of new potential and new possibilities can open us to a treasure trove of unlimited brilliance. Take a moment over the Easter weekend to enjoy the fullness of your life, and make a commitment to live in gratitude for the tremendous gift of life we have been given.  Let the beauty of April, Aphrodite and Easter open your heart and bring you closer to the balance and brightness of Spring.

 

 I keep you in my heart.

Bright Spring Blessings,

Sharon

 

Happy New Year!!

No, really, I have not lost my mind!  It truly is March, not January. But we can celebrate a brand new year this month!

            In the old Julian calendar, the New Years festivities began on March 25. Now   that is something that makes sense to me. I could never figure out why the New Year was started in the dead of winter…..well, that was when Pope Gregory wanted it to start in his  new and improved calendar. But in the old way, the Julian way, the New Year began on March 25. The beginning of the warm times, the return of the Sun, the welcome return of Spring. That seems more in tune with the cycle of the year.

            Apparently, our foremothers and fathers felt the same way. They marked the New Years beginning at the Spring Equinox, the time when day and night are equal in length. The even gave this day s special name: Ostara. This is when darkness and light are in perfect balance. This is the beginning of the light returning to conquer the darkness, the lengthening of the daylight hours, the return of the nourishing warmth, and the gladness of Spring. It is indeed a new beginning.

            The Spring Equinox on March 20th is a perfect occasion to gain some insight into our lives. This is the day of balance. It is a great time to look deeply into our lives, and see just where some balance is needed. This month is also a nice time to take a brief inventory of our lives, to see just where we are and where we plan on going.

            Make a list of all the items in your life now, to see where you can add the necessary balance. Start with your food…are you nurturing your body with good, wholesome foods? And no, what the burger joint down the street serves is not food! Your body requires the lovely foods provided by Mother Earth, and in as near a state as She offers it. Sleep….are you getting the hours that your body needs?  My husband always tells me, when I am stressing out, that I don’t get a prize for staying up too late. He is right! Sleep is Our Mother’s way of healing the body and restoring the soul. Go to sleep!!

            Are you taking the necessary measures to calm and de-stress yourself? Watching television does not count! TV is an additional stressor on your emotional and physical systems. Go outside for a short walk instead. Breathe. Take a soothing bath. Read an uplifting work of literature. Write an uplifting piece of literature! Play with your pets. Go outside and watch the clouds. You are entitled to a respite!

            I am sure you can discover more ways to find balance within yourself.

             I am very aware that for so many of you life is a whirlwind of activity. You are going to school, finishing a degree, and working full-time in demanding career. Some of you are planning weddings, and preparing an event for two or three or four hundred people is a massive undertaking. But that is all the more reason to rediscover the balance within you!  Please take the necessary time for prayer, meditation, stress relief, and just plain taking care of yourself….in positive, loving ways.  You are a very valuable creation! 

Enjoy the Bright Blessings of Spring!

You are in my heart.

Sharon

 I love February, because its arrival signals the beginning of the end of winter. The seemingly endless sunless days and cold winds are about to give way to the bright blessings of warmth and sunshine. All we need do is wait.

          Our Foremothers and fathers would mark this new beginning as sacred and special. They understood that hidden in the depths of Mother Earth the tiniest beginnings of Spring are making their presence known. The days are lengthening.  Spring bulbs are beginning to awaken. The blood of the trees, the sap, is starting to flow once again, waking the sleeping giants of the woods.   Our foremothers would celebrate these new beginning with a ceremony of light, called Imbolic, the festival of the Goddess Brigit. Brigit was later Christianized and canonized into Saint Brigit, but She is forever and always a Goddess. The Goddess of Ireland and the Celts, and us, as well.

           Spring is already beginning in Ireland, where this festival originated, although for us, Spring is many weeks away. It was, and is, a time for reflection, peaceful contemplation, prayer and inner seeking, and making a Brigit solar cross to protect the home.  It was a time to contemplate what needed to be accomplished in the coming weeks and months. It was a time of celebration.

          It is a good idea to use this wisdom of the past for our own benefit. Perhaps now would be a nice time to take a mini inventory of our lives, to see what needs doing, what needs removing, what need cherishing. It is all right to be quiet for a while. The Great Goddess encourages the quiet.  There are those beings that cannot grow and prosper in noise and confusion, that need and demand, the quiet in order to flourish.

           Sometime around the beginning of the month, for that is when Imbolic is, take time for yourself. Prepare a peaceful interlude for yourself, perhaps with a small scented candle and a cup a spiced tea. Breathe in and out quietly, softly, and enjoy the silence around you. Have your journal handy, and jot down a few things that you would like to see grow and prosper in your life. Write out your gratitudes: your health, your family, your friends, your pets, this lovely world, clean air, sparkling water, your job, your education, everything you can think of. It would be especially significant to find 19 things to be grateful about, for the number 19 is sacred to Bridget.  And to complete, write a statement about your life, a powerful affirmation. “I am growing peace in my world”  “I am a competent, gracious friend to many people.”  “I am a loving child of the Goddess.” “I am a creator of prosperity.” I am sure you can think of many more. Copy your favorite statement to a sticky-note, or make a poster, and put it where you can see it every day this month. Become the blessing of light in the world.

          To close your ceremony, finish your tea, blow out the candle, and breathe a genuine “thank you” to the Creator of all, for the goodness of your life. Give your journal a little kiss, and place it on your altar space. Ask Bridget to bless you with Her love and awareness. Imbolic is February 1, but there is no reason you could not do this little ritual any day you desire this month…..particularly on the 19th.

          Enjoy these first whisperings of Spring. I keep you in my thoughts and prayers each day.

Bright Blessings!

Sharon  

January Musings

New Years has always confounded me. I could never figure out why the New Year begins in the dead of winter.  During the winter in my part of the world, the sun vanishes for weeks at a time behind a thick layer of clouds. It is very cold, snowy and topped with gale force winds….and that is on an average day.  On stormy days…. Oh my goodness! Head for the downy covers….it is a maelstrom! 

            So why on earth would anyone decree that the New Year is to begin when there is nothing alive in sight?  How can one talk about beginnings when not a thing is beginning? What is the meaning behind all this?

            In some earlier cultures, the New Year will begin in February, when the sap in the trees is starting to flow, signaling the first nuances of Spring. New England celebrates this event with maple sugar festivals. Other cultures, such as the Celtic peoples, find the New Year beginning in October, after the last of the autumn’s harvest has been brought in. The Chinese use a lunar-based calendar, and their New Years is anywhere between January 21 and February 20, depending on the moon.  The Islamic celebration of New Years is called Muharram, and is also moveable. The Jewish New Year, also lunar-based, is called Rosh Hashanah and occurs in September.  The Mayans believed the New Year began in July. The Hindus celebrate New Years four times a year! At the change of the seasons is the time for celebration!  All traditions seem to have their own special times for finding the New Year.

            Our New Year began in 45 BC, when Julius Caesar decreed that a new calendar was to be implemented, and January First was the first day of the New Year. And so it is today.

            Trying to find meaning and value in the New Year, in the coldest and dreariest time of the year, can be a challenge. The media would like us to believe that there is much we need to change about ourselves, beginning with our physical appearance. Aggressively advertised products for self improvement dominate the airwaves and newspapers beginning the minute that the Christmas push is over.

             Perhaps this year we might like to explore a more Goddess-centered look at the New Year. Perhaps we might like to look at out lives as a metaphor of the Earth. The Earth now is slumbering under mounds of snow, yet is still providing us with oxygen to breathe, water to drink, food to nourish. Outside, it is crisp and still.  The landscape has a stark, special beauty found at no other time of year. Some animals enjoy hibernation, a respite from the world, to dream, to hide, to survive. Yet under this quietude, there is hope and the promise of new life returning. There is the certain knowing that Spring will burst forth, but only in Her own good time. First must come the deep, icy rest of winter.

            The cycles of the Earth Mother have suggested that winter is the time of rest and rejuvenation. Many things need the darkness and the quietness for growth. Tulips and daffodils need the dark layer of cold in order to bloom in the Spring. And we too need the rejuvenating quiet and peace in order to grow and become the being we are in the process of becoming.

            May I offer a suggestion for this New Years? Please take a few moments for yourself. Make a nice hot cup of tea (my personal cure-all for almost anything), enjoy the scent and taste, and relax. Do nothing. Just relax. Enjoy your own company….you are pretty nice after all! Don’t think of all the “shoulds” and ways to change yourself. You are absolutely perfect, just the way you are. Your hair is perfect, your nose is perfect, your life is perfect….just the way it is now, because it is yours. You are a Child of the Goddess….how could you be anything less than wonderful?

            Take a moment, while enjoying your tea, to reflect on all the beauty in your life. There is beauty in everything, if only we know where, and how, to look. Look deeply at yourself, and see the beauty there is…the beauty of your kindness, your generosity of spirit, your compassion and love. You are gifted with so much goodness. Please do not forget the beauty that is YOU. Look at the beauty of the world around you. And if you see something that does not please you, know that you can affect a change. You are intelligent, beautiful, wise, and powerful, and a Divine Child……the change you seek is within you now. Go within yourself, and truly rest. Let the wisdom that comes from the quiet come forth in its own time, in its own method.

            If you would like to make a resolution, resolve to add more love to your life. Resolve to add more love to your family. Resolve to add more love to the world. Resolve to add more joy, more laughter, and more light. Resolve to include more reverence in your life…..reverence for yourself, your home, your work, your family, your community, your world. Resolve to be more peaceful. Resolve to see the beauty in all things. Resolve to love things about yourself that you have a hard time loving. Resolve to see the goodness. Resolve to smile more.

            Meditate with tea as often as you can, hopefully daily, and enjoy the sense of peace that comes with your respite from the busyness of your life. Enjoy the New Year as the precious gift that it is, and enjoy yourself, as the gift you are to the world.

  Bright Blessings for a Peaceful, Beautiful New Year.

  Sharon

December Musings

“Let there be light, and there was light”

                         Genesis

This is the Season of Light, this dark-time wonder of December. For months now, the days have become shorter and shorter, and the nights longer and seemingly darker. Until we come now, to Yule, to the magical Winter Solstice, when the Goddess births Her Radiant Child, the Sun.

Through out the mythologies, the Great Goddess gave birth to the Light of the World, the return of the Sun, in the cycle of the year. Isis gives birth to Horus, Rhiannon bears Pryderi, the sacred son, Demeter gives birth to Her sacred daughter, Persephone. Divine Mothers all across cultures bring forth their light filled sacred children. And no wonder; light is returning to the world. It will still be many weeks before the warmth of the Sun Child will be strong enough to kindle the Spring. But for now, there is the hope of light and warmth and green plants.

Hope is always enough. And now, to celebrate that hope of the future, we fill our homes with light and festive sweet- scented greenery, sympathetic magic as it were, to generate light and green in the cold, snowy world outside. We celebrate the Divine Mother and Her beautiful Child.  The ancients called this celebration “Modraniht”, the Mother Night. A child is born, and a new world is created. How wise our ancestors to celebrate all Mothers, all children, with this sacred holyday. We would be wise to observe the same reverence towards all mothers and their children, past, present and yet-to-be, and rejoice in their presence in our lives.

Fill your lives now with hope and light and reverence. Our wise fore-mothers gathered the clans around them, to enjoy the foods, drinks and stories that would become traditions. Continue your family traditions, or perhaps, begin new traditions that better serve your needs. Fill your precious family together time with stories and games. Turn off the television. Listen to the children. Play with the boxes. Make a spaceship and journey to the stars with them.  Enjoy your family. Enjoy the silence of the snow. Fill your life with hope. Fill your life with love. Enjoy this Season of Light.

Bright Blessings,

Sharon

 

“As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them.”

                                                            John F. Kennedy

I came across these words as few days ago, and was struck by the beauty and simplicity of these sentiments.

As we approach the traditional season of gratitude, please remember President Kennedy’s words, and make them a part of your life.

It is a very important thing to express gratitude. Giving thanks is a part of almost every spiritual practice and a valuable part of everyday life. I am hoping that you take the time to give thanks for the great and small blessings that we enjoy each day. Give thanks to the One Who provided the fresh air, rich soil, rainfall.  Give thanks for dinner, for the one who cooked, prepared, planned, shopped, and cleaned up. Give thanks to the farmers who lovingly grow our food. Give thanks for the grocery stores and merchants who make it easy for us to purchase our food.  To quote Gladys Browyn Stern: “Silent gratitude isn’t much use to anyone”. Let everyone know how much you appreciate them!

However, I would like to recommend going that one step further. Put feet under your prayers of gratitude. It is great to express your gratitude; it is another to actually do something about it.

The Great Mother is not one to waste time with words, She is action incarnate. When She is serene, she laughs in flowers and butterflies and the breath-taking beauty of nature. When She is not, look out! To paraphrase an old commercial:” it’s not nice to mess